Rising number of rape cases in our society proves that something is wrong at a very large and basic level. It is clear after the brutal rape of five years old kid in Delhi that poverty, lack of education, revealing clothes, use of mobile phones, going out at night, late marriage are not the reasons of rape which were cited again and again by many renowned personalities and even common man. Rape is actually done by sick people who are physically healthy and fine but mentally not. Sick mentality is engulfing every man who does not remain in his senses and results in such a heinous crime.
Society and police is blamed, media becomes super active, protests by people, anger and much more than this is done and seen every time but without a result. All this is not at all changing the society the way it should. Down the line self control through self improvement is the need of the day which will improve one?s life and way of thinking.
Be spiritual not to show off but in reality. Living close to God will help you to stay away from negative thoughts. Make a routine of getting up early in the morning to offer prayers. If you know the technique of meditation then perform this or learn it as it helps in getting rid of negative and unwanted thoughts. Do not run after worldly gurus but be close to that supreme divine power. Try getting his positive energy.
Environment in which you live has a profound impact on your personality and way of thinking. Even if you are living in a single room or a small home you must create an inspirational environment. Keep it clean and paste nice thoughts on walls so that you can see and feel these day and night.
?Honesty is the best Policy? so be honest in everything you do and say.
Before giving pain to others think what would it feel if same would happen to you? Do hurt anyone neither physically nor emotionally. If you are a person who is not at peace then you have to train your mind for the same. Many times your mind wander and you end up doing a wrong act. But you have to keep your emotions under your control rather than coming under their control.
Bring in a routine
Routine in life is the most important aspect of self improvement. Start your day as early as possible. This will improve your life as well as productivity. Ensure to follow a routine in life.
Most of us have the habit of blaming either God or other person for all our misfortune. It is not they but you who is responsible for all the wrong. So stop blaming and accept if you are wrong. Try to improve yourself for a better life.
Set a challenge
Setting up a challenge in life means you will work towards it and remain busy. Keeping yourself busy means not letting negative thought to come. Healthy competition always helps in self improvement and the best way to grow.
Quit bad habits
Everyone has bad habits. For self improvement you have to quit bad habits. Note down all your bad habits and start working on these.
Avoid bad company
Your friends show your personality and over a period of time you start behaving like them. Negative thoughts grow profoundly if you have bad people around you. Identify such people around you and avoid them.
Do not watch obscenity
It is better not to watch TV or any other media as it is full of obscenity. Some people get influenced by obscenity to such an extent that for day and night they keep on thinking about this. With such a mentality they do what they should not. So stay away from obscenity.
If you get success in controlling your mind then self improvement is not a difficult thing as it follows mind control.